tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5942318798819818012.post6998248317441818180..comments2023-06-04T19:44:10.633+08:00Comments on Me Vs Myself... Questions of life~~~: Stories of its own..Yvonne, Vonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05230765615639351009noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5942318798819818012.post-92059737699151961902009-07-29T15:41:56.980+08:002009-07-29T15:41:56.980+08:00u wanna noe y guys are not so much being known as ...u wanna noe y guys are not so much being known as emotional? because they know well that the woman will be able to handle the questions that pops up with their family? correct? tat's y women are known as emotional.. because most of them feel free to express their concern.. while guys.. u will think that it is not manly at all to express all those emotion of urs? <br /><br />u wanna know y woman tend to "over control" guys? hav u ever hav a second thought that.. the problem might just due to the fact that.. the guys failed to giv the basic need in a relationship- security? when u are married to a gal.. it does not mean that u don have to care for her and be there for her d k !! and when u found someone better.. u can start to have affair wit someone else? this is wat that is feared by most woman.. and causes the controlling to occur.. if u can assure her and giv her the basic need of security.. maybe all these won happen ? or in other words.. if she can be sure that u will not have any affair.. do u think she will control u until.. <br /><br />Come on.. u are saying as though we gal are sex machine and we are needed just for that occasion.. this shows no respect at all ok !! pls do respect us!! we are not here for u .. and u are not here for us!! I know it well.. and if one day, u decided to be with someone.. u will learn to compromise.. the easiest way of all to deal with all problem.. is not silence treatment k!! through communication.. u will know wat is needed.. <br /><br />So, I would like to conclude that.. I never say.. in anyway that.. man can never be success without a woman.. but the fact that, if they have a woman behind them to support them.. and to take care of every other things in life for them.. they will be able to concentrate more and achieve greater success.. right ?Yian Sin, Yvonnehttp://yiansin.blogspot.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5942318798819818012.post-1198792697849770112009-07-29T13:52:31.193+08:002009-07-29T13:52:31.193+08:00Hmmm... Both man & woman are created wif a pur...Hmmm... Both man & woman are created wif a purpose... We are meant 2 co-exist wif another.. <br /><br />In tis modern age, da mentality & perception of life among most ppl have advance so much in a way tat gettin married or starting a family's no longer a necessity... D attention they diverge to is none other than... their career!<br /><br />I think tat single woman these days are able 2b successful bcos they hav no commitment.. they need not worry 4 their children's welfare... or even worry tat their husbands are having an affair wif another woman...<br /><br />Let's face it! Woman are created 2b emotional! I'm not saying ALL... but most are... So, having a family's indeed a liability 4 women who're really serious in their career... To them, not having a family's a luxury... <br /><br />Ouch... Wat am i blabbering about?!<br /><br />Back 2wat u said, 'some' men are not understanding... Interesting! I can only come out wif 2 relevant conclusion..<br /><br />1st, love is blind... Both d men & women re delusionalized by da word 'love' tat only after marriage tat they c their 'true color' & only realized it's already too late... Thus, their marriage goes 4a downturn & they quarrel then divorce etc etc... So, husbands became 'not understandin' wif da reason they believe their marriage's not working somehow... Thus, they put on their yeah-wateva-wateva-wateva mask & tis definitely piss da women off... Reality's sometimes cruel... <br /><br />2nd, alrite... tis may sound a little male chauvinistic... Well, let's just keep an open mind k... Da reality in most relationship's da controlling issue... WIVES have da GREATEST tendency or perhaps desire 2 overule their husbands... I'm not making tis up... :) Look around... ~_~" <br /><br />Moving on, most husbands LOVE their wives vry much... to d extend... they giv in 2 their wives... Over a certain period of time, da wives somehow become vry 'powerful'... leavin da men suppressed in their secluded little cave of loneliness... As time went by, women complain their husbands are not understandin... which in actual fact.. d other way round.. so, tat's probably one of d factor..<br /><br />Mayb.. d men somehow just SUCK! N i dun understand y (no offense) women are so dumb 2 actually fall 4 men like tat... Well, then again.. love is blind... Relationships are built fr trust, perseverance & tolerance 4 each other's differences blah blah blah...<br /><br />1 last thin 2 share... d phrase "there's always a woman behind every successful man"... I can't deny da fact tat it's pretty true.. but tat doesn't mean men can't stand on their own feet & b successful without women... <br /><br />Ya noe, just keepin' it real! D reason why most men have a woman in their lives is perhaps their passion & desire 4 sex... Rather than adrenaline rush, tis's more of testosterone rush... So, if u c in another perspective, tis's more of women taking credit of a man's success as a result of their sexual desire 2hav a woman in their lives for tat purpose... <br /><br />LMAO! I was bullshitting in d last paragraph... Blurr dy.. din notice i wrote so much... Fingers pain dy... U asked for any1's pt of view... N here it's... XP!<br /><br />Hav a nice day^^RONdeBENhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17778645263250776858noreply@blogger.com