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Sunday, March 28, 2010

How to overcome negative emotions?

Ya... I have been kinda down and stress lately.. what to do.. I'm a final year student.. and all the accounting and finance assignments.. I tell you.. is not as easy as it seems to be.. but none the less.. it is very challenging and interesting as well. ok.. out of topic.. I have been down because my beloved sister went to India as she is currently under JPA scholarship and government decided to send her to India to study Medic.. although it is a great news.. but seeing her departing.. makes me feel down.. u know what i meant right? Thn this tones of assignments.. my.. I started to wonder where is my life.. and when can I have the time to rest.. and maybe go back to Melaka.. thn I suddenly think of this wonderful place (actually not as wonderful as you have in mind) which have my favorite food.. I've got to have it.. because I know well that it will definitely makes me feel so much better.. but time is running out.. how? So, I have made up my mind.. if i can do til my desired part on the next day.. I will reward myself with this wonderful food.. and guess what.. it not only motives me to strive harder.. I actually feel so much better after I had it.. and this is the wonder of food?!.. Now i understand why people will tend to eat alot when they are super down.. but what I'm about to show you.. is not chocolate or wat so ever.. it is just a really small stall.. but one famous stall at petaling street selling my favourite food -.. introducing... ASAM LAKSA!!!
Wanna have a look at it?


NICE?!.. I dunno.. I find it to be really really nice.. and not to forget.. fresh.. but hygiene wise.. well.. what can i say.. it is a stall at Petaling Street.. right in front of the pasar.. but heh.. when it starts selling foods.. the pasar would have closed.. so.. not really a huge issue.. but if you are too a big fan of Asam Laksa.. this is a MUST to try it out..

what actually makes it so special and different from what we usually have? Well.. let's see.. it's fresh.. and you actually get what you pay for.. and MOST IMPORTANTLY.. ok.. let the photo do the talking.. u see the one in the blue box (in the photo below)?? it is wat that makes the diff.. you can PUT AS MUCH AS YOU LIKE! and if you don't find the soup to be as spicy as you desired? u can always add the one in the yellow box.. but let me warn you first.. it is spicy enough d.. I actually need tones of tissue after I had it.. so.. if u wanan take up my challenge and put more of the one in the yellow box.. go ahead.. be my guest!! ok.. done talking.. MORE of how my favourite looks like..


You will realise one thing.. you get what you pay for.. and it cost RM4.50 ( for this big bowl of Asam Laksa) and I actually feel extremely full after I had it.. worth all the money I pay for.. because.. I know places selling such food.. it might be as nice as this.. but you might have to pay almost double of the price I'm paying. so.. you decide... but before you go.. please make sure that it is after 3.30pm.. because the stall only start operating after 3.30pm.. and you can even have your dinner there.. so.. do try it out.. because it is really nice!! and most of all.. IT CHEERS ME UP !!
Ya.

Monday, March 8, 2010

Betrayal start with...

Ya.. I know I should be working on my assignment but I cam across this surprisingly news that a well-known film director from Singapore that is also known to have a loving family actually had an affair as long as 2 years!!

This reminded me of 2 articles that i once wrote ..here and here . I don't understand... no one will ever be satisfy or willing to settle down with only 1 person in their life because ultimately.. whn things remain status quo for way too long.. you will start to get bored.. and wish to go for something "fresher"? what happened if it happens the other way round? will you ever forgive the one that betrayed you because she wishes to "try things out" and "things got out of hand"? ya.. I know and agree with this whn i read this from Dawa..

"Betrayal begins with trust. You can never blame a person when they don't trust you, even if you're his/her lover" ( DAWA, 2010)

but I have this question for you.. how will you feel whn you don trust some1? you will feel highly insecure and won be able to rest wel and will start to suspect he or she for going anyway he goes.. and will think of him or her betraying u every seconds whn he(let's assume it's a "he" for the time being k? ) is apart from you.. it will drives you crazy ok?!.. and if you understand "laws of attraction" well enough.. you will know that if you keeps on thinking of something (positive thoughts or negative thoughts) .. you will somehow "attract" those thoughts from a thought to a "reality"?! which will not be wat you wan? How can you know whn to trust some1 and whn not to trust some1? is it a risk to take just like all the risks you have to take as long as you are alive? but can you really handle all the consequences whn all the bad things actually become reality?

Ok.. too much questions.. too little answers.. I don believe in forever.. that's for sure.. because nothing last forever.. but I believe in one thing.. to fall in love is not something you can control.. but to stay in love.. tat's a choice.. however, betrayal.. is a choice too.. don tell me you regret on something after you have conducted it.. it will be like you killed some1 purposely because at tat moment.. you feel like doing so.. but after that you "regret" on your action.. and ask for forgiveness? sounds really stupid.. but wel.. this is wat usually happened.. someone used to tell me this.. women act on their emotion.. and guys act on their desire. When they desire to go on a girl that is "fresh", young, attractive.. they can only find reasons to do without thinking much on the consequences? I know it doesn't apply to all guys.. but most of u all in these categories.. as wat i can say.. to do or not.. it's a choice.. not something you are forced to do! Even though if it happens only "once".. can you be sure that it will end with only once? I believe that whn there's a one time.. it will follow by with a second third and will not end ?!..

Guys.. if one day.. you do not find her attractive anymore.. why do you have to betray her? why can't you just end the relationship thn only decide on wat to do next? be fair to both party pls.. don find reasons for doing something stupid.. I know whn you decide to betray once's trust.. you have decided to be selfish.. and had been tired of her.. but have you ever had a second thought that.. she might be feeling the same too? tired of current life and wish to have a "fresh start" all over again? maybe guys and gals don really think alike.. but I believe in karma.. wat comes around.. goes around..

I also believe that.. if a guy decided to betray some1 for you.. you might feel touched.. and accepted him straight.. but pls do bear in mind.. he can do this to her.. he will do the same thing to you too.. Have you experienced the feeling of betrayal? I don't wish to go through this.. and I hope you won't cause anyone to go through this hell.. but what I wanna say is.. it takes months or even years to build trust.. but it only take few second to break it into pieces.. and there's no guarantee that it can be build up all over again.. before you break it.. think twice ok?!.. be some1 that think far ahead and not short sighted with what you can have or enjoy now?

Ok.. I know this is not a fair post to all the guys.. pls don take it the hard way.. take it as.. emmm.. a "gentle" reminder to prove me wrong.. and never to hurt some1 that have been trying to hard to stay in love.. that work so hard to come this far.. one day, you will hav ur turn.. maybe not now.. maybe not this life.. but one day.. you will go through this hell .. this is karma..

Lastly.. I have a really nice song that i wanna share.. hope u will like it..

Thursday, March 4, 2010

Little motivation pls?!

Ok.. I've not been in my best shape lately.. with all the assignments and work load.. I can only choose to either have more rest and skip class.. or go for classes and rest less.. what did I go for.. tat's not the point.. but with my lack og time management.. I had to learn it the hard way that.. things don't always go my ways regardless how much efford I put in..

I just got my result for my assignment.. and one of my assignment mark shocked me.. I din't failed ( thank god!) but I break my record and got the lowest of all.. Well.. I was kind of down.. because I did put lots of efford trying to complete it.. and this makes me wonder wat when wrong.. what i did was not wat that is required? or is it because wat i did was totally out of point? I know.. it's only 30% out of finals.. but.. when you work kind of hard on something.. you will not expect the worst out of it right? sad? been through that.. now.. what I really need is for someone to tell me.. motivate me on letting go of the past and focusing on the future.. I know I should focus on the future and work double hard to make sure I'll get the best out of what is left over.. I know that what ever that I've and will give in does makes it equal to what I will get back.. but I also know that without giving in.. I will never get what is desired.. so what should I do?

Ok.. I guess I have no other choice.. what done is done.. I cannot turn back time and tell them to give me one more chance to undo what had been done.. what I can do is to do some damage control.. I guess I should be glad that I still have a second chance to "repair the situation".. if only there's a second chance on everything on life right? there might be less tears and we might be living in a better world.. I need to appreciate the second chance given.. and strive for the best!! time is running out.. and if i continue to stay emo and pondering around on what had happened.. I'll missed out even more.. so.. let's work really hard on what a better tommorow !! I can't change what had happened..but I stand a chance on changing on what that can and might happen!!

Wednesday, February 24, 2010

Revive - Up Party~~

Ya.. u didn't read it wrongly.. I did went for a party.. and surprisingly.. I enjoyed it alot.. now i know why people loves partying so much!! but the different part is, I don't have to pay a single cent yet I enjoyed myself to the max!! All these.. I have to say.. the credit should go to the DJs, those who participated.. and of course, the organizer. We had unlimited refill of beers, whiskey.. and not forgetting 7 up revive!!
ok.. let the photos do the talking ..
The crowd
First performance of the day. All they need is basic furniture to create a band
Guess who is this?
Even the crowd join in the dance
This pic is too dark but it's MYFM deejay, Ngan Mei Yan aka Sau Yan who had to walk around and let us poke.
Pic with her!
Take a guess who is this guy
The spotlight of the night
The finale where they give out prizes of those who participated in the facebook rev up with revive pic contests
another one for the winner
Soon it was free for all party time
This is their toilet. when you see this door means you have to act the same. tahan till the fella inside comes out. hahahaha

Saturday, February 13, 2010

What's up on such BIG DAY??

Ya.. have you wondered what to do on such double big day? I mean.. heh.. Valentine together with Chinese New Year(CNY)?! It's more like a choice between family and your the other partner.. you know.. the typical kinda question a gal will ask his guy "dear a dear.. I have a question to ask.. you have to answer me frankly lo.. don worry.. I won get angry.. but you have to answer me and answer me frankly lo.. if one day, your mom and I dropped into the ocean.. emmm.. who will you choose to save first?" Guys out there.. never ever believe a gal when she says " I won't mind".... it's a matter of how well she can hide her feeling.. trust me.. don ever get yourself into trouble by buying what she said k?! .. and in the end.. you might jz be like..



Well, I won't say this year is so much different from last year.. but at least this year.. during tis 2 big days,, I'm in Melaka.. my home town!! Definitely, I won't really get bored.. alone? emmm.. ya.. this will be like the past 20++ years.. alone.. nothing much special.. expect for the fact that.. emmm.. it is CNY?!.. oh ya.. I almost forgot.. I have some other things on hand.. 2 more major assignments to do.. haih.. spoil my holidays and CNY le.. but wat to do.. this is my life.. ya i noe.. i need to bare with it for few more months and good bye study life and hello wrking life.. good? emmm.. I won say good.. I might jz think that I will have less freedom.. but wel..I need to wrk to stay free as I will have the $$ to buy goods and needs.. and maybe to pamper myself? ok.. i'm going way too far d.. back to the story..

I had been really bz lately.. bz doing assignment.. falling sick.. ya.. I was not feeling wel jz few days b4 the big day.. I went to see doc.. thn was advised to take injection.. bec.. as according to the doc.. after I took the med will not feel like vomiting ( for those who had no idea.. I was having food poisoning few days ago for few days). So, I took the injection which I regretted!! because.. my place where the doc gav the injection swollen (dark green colour).. and it's painful.. causing my hand to feel really weak.. lucky no more sign d.. else.. how can I go visiting (collect ang pao) with such ugly patch on my hand?! ok.. I'm gonig way off the topic d!! sorry.. got carried away!!

So, do you all think it's good to have such combination of big days? who will you choose le? Me? I don't really have a choice right?To me, family comes first!! I know Valentine is one big day too.. but heh.. I won wanna put my beloved one in such dilemma k! Any other day can be my valentine as long as he is beside me.. treasured me.. cared and loved me right? forcing him to choose who to go for...will shows how selfish you are? but however, if he can make it .. tat would be the best.. but wel.. if can't make it.. gals.. you know what you can do? wel.. it will be like he owe you something right? so.. emmm.. you know wat to do?!.. haha.. stil have no idea? leave a comment.. I can tell you how.. I won wan the guys to kill me off straight here..

I would like to take this opportunity to which everyone of u...

emmm.. something seems to be missing.. this year is year of tiger right? .. emmm.. ok.. tiger is missing.... how about tis photo?
.. something still seems to be missing.. oh.. I know.. without me..you don feel my sincerity right? ok ok..

SEE.. I love this "Choi San Ye" so much I tried to hug him le.. I mean.. how nice if he likes me too right? thn I can have all the $$ I want? haha.. ok.. I took another picture too.. with the hope that.. "HE" will remember me.. and will "follow me where ever I go"..

CUTE le.. no.. I don mean me la..you thought I so perasan meh? .. I mean this "choi san ye".. anyway, I wanna wish you all..

HAPPY CHINESE NEW YEAR 2010 !!
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in the same time.. I also wanna wish you all..

HAPPY VALENTINE!!

remember.. you are not alone la.. you still have me and my blog to accompany you at such time right? so.. let's enjoy this special day with 2 big seasons of love?!

Tuesday, February 2, 2010

猜不透 ..Trying hard to figure out..

Ya.. I realised I love to listen to such song.. especially when I'm emo.. the funny thing is.. heh.. when you are down you might wanna find ways and means to avoid the deep feeling of your.. me on the other hand, wel.. I have to admit this. .when I'm sad.. I will tend to feel like wanna watch some funny movie.. thn maybe listen to this kinda songs.. why I do such torture? I dunno.. I somehow believe that.. when you are sad or even emo til a certain point that you can no longer feel anything.. you'll feel so numb that you feel nothing.. thn maybe you will start to recover.. I remembered I once had a bad experience.. and there was this CD that wil remind me of that.. to my surprised.. that I somehow on the same CD over and over for days, weeks and even months.. til one point of time.. I realised.. i'm finally over it.. it no longer have any effect on me.. funny way of dealing wit stuff.. ya.. i noe.. as compared with those that chose to avoid.. delete or even erase those memories.. or even people of their list that somehow gave them those memory.. I choose to keep them.. face them.. and deal with it..

ok ok.. I know I'm totally out of this topic.. today's topic.. is about tis song.. oh my.. I can't stand listen to song.. you know the feeling.. when you have such hope for some people.. but you are being treat .. with .. emmm.. " hot and cold"? You will be wondering.. wat you are to this someone.. wat have you did.. you wish to understand this someone so much.. but the more you know.. you will start to realise the least you know of this someone? I like tis song.. but not the MV to be frank..
To be frank, I actually hate silence treatment.. when I did something that makes you unhappy.. please do.., by all means, tell me straight to my face.. ok ok.. maybe not to my face.. but you really have to tell me.. don't keep it to yourself and bare with it.. I understand how it feel to bare things.. without telling it out loud.. I know how it feels to try your very best to deal with all the emotion silently.. wearing a mask to face everyone around.. hence, I won wan you to go through all these because of me.. If you don't understand me, do ask any questions .. I will try my best to answer..because I strongly believe that if you wan things to wrk out.. keeping it to yourself will not be the way.. I see friends, couples, and even husband & wife that assumed the other party will not understand things.. and hence keep things and feeling to themselves.. I have a question for you.. keeping things to yourself.. will make things better? are you 100% sure things won work out if you tell the truth? maybe things will not work out as plan.. but without telling it out.. thing will definitely not wrk out.. right? like wat my lecturer used to say.. ASSUME = ASS + U + ME ( Ass you and me ).. so.. never assume.. be sure of things.. I used to assume things.. I used to think that I should never tell my feeling out loud.. because this will show how weak I'm .. I should always uphold my imagine of being this strong, cold- blooded gal.. someone that no one can break through.. and see how timid, weak I'm.. but I realised.. maybe it's time for me to be myself.. maybe.. it is time for others to know how I feel? I wish to be understood.. in the same time, I wish to understand how others feel.. but the more I wish to do so.. the further apart I'm from the initial point.. I guess I've failed miserably..

Let's see.. wat's the last solution I have? Wish upon the star.. even though i Know well that.. it's jz another wish that will not come true.. .. is tis wat's called as life? I wonder..

丁噹 - 猜不透



P.S : I hope you will like this song!!

Saturday, January 30, 2010

Life's Good With DaVinci the Genius

I had won a in a blog competition my boyfriend asked me to join a while ago and I was waiting for the prize to see what's it all about. Finally the package arrived. Inside it there are the letter congratulating me, 2 tickets to the Da Vinci the Genius Exhibition, a 50% discount on exhibition merchandise voucher and my favourite Starbucks RM10 voucher.

So what did I do about it? Of course the first thing to do is to have Starbucks for breakfast since my boyfriend also won the blog contest and the facebook one.

First up what is it about this exhibition which makes it different from the others? The challenge was to create an exhibition which showcases most of Leonardo's work. Thanks to Grande Exhibitions and sponsored by LG, this exhibition is made happen for us to enjoy at the National Science Center.

So I went to the show and was disappointed when we saw this sign. How to blog if we can't take pictures?

Fortunately my boyfriend talked to the friendly staff there who gave him a pass to allow him to take pictures. Look at his smile? Doesn't his looks makes you feel happy like a kid too?

So we went in and in the first gallery, we get to see the life and times of Leonardo Da Vinci who lived from 1452-1519.

From there, I got to know that Leonardo had been the greatest genius the world has ever known. Why is he known as that? I will tell you throughout this post.

All his life's work are written on small notebooks like this one here.

Through time, his works are separated and in 1630, Pompeo Leoni got hold of a large scale of his works but they were taken apart and sorted in subjects which makes the original orders which could tell much of his life lost. The sorted works are named as codices. The chart below shows the details of them.

Amongst his works are in the fields of machine inventions where he gave the ideas to motor car, submarines, tanks, machine guns, glider and a lot others.

He is also known as the Father of Flight for his contributions to the ideas of flight and being the first to look at the science of flight. Imagine without him, there would never be planes to travel in today. In his works he worked based on the movements of a bird's wings. He also gave birth to the idea of a parachute.

His contributions in Military engineering was also enormous in creating weapons of wars. His time of living with wars forced him to come up with ideas of deadly machines. Some are easy in construction and practical in use such as the emergency bridge and ladders. He then moved on to offensive and defensive inventions such as the machine gun and armored cars.

He is also well versed with the physics and mechanical principles, coming up with the ideas of the ball bearing system, coil spring and flywheels to name a few.
My favourite machine. The pan mee roller. Actually it's a wheat roller
He is also into civil mechanics. Do you know that the bicycle was first invented by him?

He is also an architect. He designed an ideal city which is planned according to the concept of unity and harmony. It's such a pity that he did not live long enough to see that came true.

He also came up with hydralics and aquatic machines. Most of which are early ideas to what we have today and some are used even till this very day.

Other than that Leonardo is also known as a man of musical and time keeping instruments. He worked with springs and gears to improve on time keeping of his time.

Then we have his anatomical drawings to apply to his paintings.

He was also involved majorly in the creation of renaissance arts with well known painting such as

Perhaps his most well known painting had been the Mona Lisa. I think this whole exhibition wouldn't be complete in the case of the absence of the Mona Lisa. In this exhibition the secrets of Mona Lisa is revealed. It was part of the scientific methods which is able to separate layers and layers of the painting to reveal what had happened and what makes it what it is today.
Other than that, his paintings includes the last supper which illustrates the last meal Jesus had with his disciples before he was betrayed by Judas. Other than that, he is also known for his Anghiari Battle drawings. It is said they are simply marvelous and breathtaking.

He is also a sculptor and had spent years researching on the movements of horses to come up with a giant statue for the Duke of Milan. He did made a model but during the war, the bronze was sent off to build cannons and subsequently his model was used as a target practice thus destroying his hard work.

That is the end of the exhibition. Actually the exhibition was a large scale one and what I put out here is only a small part of the exhibition. If you really want to go for this exhibition, I heard they had been moved over to Taiwan. You really need to see it for yourself to feel what it is like.So isn't life good with Da Vinci the Genius? He is a man of many talent. A creator of many things which we still use to this very day yet he said this "I have offended god and mankind because my work didn't reach the quality it should have". I would say if he were to live till this very day, He would have created something like the LG Crystal GD 900 because in comparison of designs, it has the one quality that what Leonardo's creation has, perfection! Had he had one of this, I am sure he would be pleased to have a work which is of the quality it should have. At least I know I would. Nevertheless, he had made life better for all of us with his creations. So how can I not say "Life's Good With Da Vinci the Genius"? Life's Good with LG too. Thanks for the tickets which opened my eyes to a world of whole new wonders.

Ps. I guess there's something you don't know about Leonardo Da Vinci. Actually his masterpiece, Mona Lisa is also called as "La Gioconda" in Italian. Does the initial sounds something familiar to you. Yes it's LG. Is this why LG products are so perfect? Time to ponder...

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