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Thursday, January 21, 2010

How many "next time" do you have?

Actually this is one email I got very long ago.. but it never failed to touch me every time i read it.. Have you ever wonder what are the important things in your life? I know $$ is definitely one of it.. Ya.. I know, without $$ how can we survive.. but above that.. have you ever wonder, why are we working so hard for money? I mean.. you did realised that although you might be earning billions and trillions of $$ you are just a worker for $$ right? you are still chasing $$ instead of letting $$ chasing you right? and have you ever pause for once and wonder.. why are you wrking so hard? have you realised all the opportunity lost that you forgo because you are way too busy chasing after $$?

For your info, it's almost Chinese New Year d.. and usually .. if you realised.. you will somehow hear lots of sad news.. don't ask me why.. because I have no answer to that.. but what I can tell you is.. read this story carefully.. and maybe you will realised what you missed out.. and maybe it's time for you to do something? Maybe you will remember tis one thing that are very much important and relevant to our life that you have somehow forgotten..


不久以前 ,我和另一位女士約會,其實那還是我妻子的主意,有一天她說:「我知道妳很愛她。」我很驚訝,立刻爭辯說:「但我愛的是妳呀!」「我知道,但你也愛她呀!」




「非常有意思,比我想像的好多了!」 ~我回答。

多花時間和他們在一起,因為這事絕不能拖延到「以後有時間再說 ...」。
「樹欲靜而風不止,子欲養而親不待」 是人生一大憾事。
~{ 愛無分 ,愛有份}~

After get marriaged for twenty-one years, i found an unique way to refresh my love life.
Not long ago, I was going to date with a lady, and the idea came from my wife

One day my wife said: I know u love her. I was shocked: The one I love is you! She said: I know, but u love her too.
The lady that my wife asked me to visit was my mother.
She was alone for nineteen years, however, I was busy with my job and my children, so I was less likely to visit her.

The night, i called her, invited her to have a dinner and movie with me at the second day.
' What happen? Are u alright?', she asked.
I answered: I was just thinking that if I have chance to date with u alone, it sure be very interesting.

After a while, she said: I do.
The Friday came after i knock off from my worked, I fetched her at her home, felt like a little bit nervous.
Because I had never been to a date with my mom before.
When I reached her house, I found that she seems a little bit nervous too.
She was in her suite, which she wore during her last wedding anniversary with my dad, waiting for me in her house.

She made her hair specially, smiling like an angel.
When she get into my car, she proudly said: all my friends were jealous at me when they know that i'm gonna dating with my son.
We went to a restaurant which was not expensive but with warmth and cozy environment.
My mom hold my hand as she was the wife of a president.
After getting to her seat, I help her to order her food,
Because she only can read the big capital words.,
When we were eating, I found she was staring at me,
She smile and said: I remembered that during yr childhood, I always make the order for u. I answered: then now is yr chance to take a rest and let me to serve u.
We keep talking during our dinner,。Sharing about our life and some special things happening these few years.

We talked for very long time until we missed the movie. When I fetched her back to her house,
She asked: I'd like to date with u next time, but please let me pay the bill next time. I agreed.
When I back to my home, my wife asked: how's yr date with yr mom?
' It was interesting and fun, over my expectation', I answered.

Few days later, my mom passed away due to heart failure. The thing happened in an unexpected manner,
I wasn't prepared for it at all.
Soon after this, I received a letter, there are a receipt of the restaurant that I dated with my mom, and a message: I already paid the bill for our next date, even though I know I'd probably won't have chance to date with u anymore, I still pay the bill for two persons: u and yr wife. U will never know how meaningful the date to me, I love U.

At the moment, I realized: we must always spare our precious time to our beloved, and told them u love them before it is too late.

There is nothing more important than yr family, spend more time with them before it is too late.

Don't make any regret in our life.

Cherish people around you while you can.. there might be a "next time" for some people.. but definitely not to all.. I'm not cursing you but simply.. a gentle reminder .. won't wan you to be the next one to say " If only I know.. I would have... but now.. it's too late d".. right?


  1. Nice story right? never failed to touch my heart every time i read it.. btw, welcome to my blog!!

  2. wow... im speechless sorry :) all I can say is wow! this is indeed right :).
    well yeah people today are chasing money and work for money simply because we are a slaves :( so sad about that

  3. Sometimes $$$ comes with a sacrifice. But never forget your roots

  4. The story on money....ur concept of letting money chase u instead of u chasing money...awesome!

  5. Ya.. most ppl wrk for the sake of wrk.. but wat i tried to say is.. maybe it's time for us to look bck at wat we have forgo? and maybe by leave no regret by putting the wrong priority in our life?

  6. yess.. keep delaying is one of my bad habit too.. try to reduce next time, next time and next time this year...

    appreciate our life! we only have once.

  7. Well.. i gues most ppl will tend to wait for another tmr to complete their wrk.. but how many tmr do we have? tat's another issue.. but we have to at least try to appreciate wat ever we hav.. at least tat's wat i think.. anyway, Welcome to my blog!

  8. Very touching story. Is this get from an email?
    Well, it's very touching that I almost cried over it. It's so true that we should cherish our love ones.

    Regards from cr3ap

  9. Ya.. i don take credit for things that i didn't do.. I didn't write tis.. but i took the effort of reading it and edit it b4 i post.. nice right? tat's y i want2 share wit everyone! glad u like it!

  10. It's touching. My tears were hanging at the corner of my eyes.
    We shall appreciate everything that we have now.



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