Mat Rempit Vs Merdeka

Merdeka.. BIG DEAL.. so big that those so called as those that are loyal to our country Malaysia HAVE TO SHOW how LOYAL they are by "rioting" on the street.. causes accidents and sound pollution to all those who live near by the roads.. this is the sign of merdeka to them.. ya.. they are very loyal.. if tis is the sign of "action louder than words". I guess no one will have a second say to it..

Try to imagine this la.. you are driving on the road.. and you see red light on the traffic light.. by law, you will stop and wait for your turn.. as you wait, you will hear a LOUD sign of non stop trouble (those with a modified motor cycle voice, obviously is a sign of trouble right?).. wat will you do? I was there.. and I actually can't believe tis is their sign of patriotic.. to me, it is more like a sign of stupidity? I mean.. come on.. the traffic light is red.. and everyone is waiting for their turn.. I know you are in a crowd of at least 10 or more motor cycle.. WAIT FOR YOUR TURN k! they actually think that with the flag on their small motor, they are hell of a great.. they can ignore all those ppl on the road and by making those loud motor noise, they can cont to ride.. and let me tell you.. I was on a T junction (4 traffic lights at 4 diff. directions) and they pass by the 4 places while I was waiting for the traffic light to turn green..

If this is a sign of patriotic.. wat is the use of police again? If tis is a sign of patriotic.. wat will those tourists think of Malaysia's educations? If this is so call a safe and fair place for we people to live in.. I wonder why the police let them continue to "operate" and we still get our "saman" when we park by a place for just a few min without a parking tickets? Oh.. talk about tickets.. I actually wonder.. I mean.. ya.. I know Malays are having their puasa.. but.. how come they don really get saman when they park even by the road side to go for those stalls or their night markets and causes all those jam on the roads near by.. and yet we still get saman on small matters?? I wonder why.. With our theme of the year.. One Malaysia : Rakyat diutamakan, pencapaian didahulukan..very much well said.. WELL SAID..

For a reason, season or a lifetime..

I came across this nice email not long ago.. and I had to share with all of you.. Life is too short to feel shy and let things go by us when we insist to hold our words just to act to be the "superior" one..

I got a sad news few days ago.. One of my ex- teacher's husband(who is also my teacher) passed away.. He used to be an active sport teacher in my school. a cheerful and wonderful teacher.. and now he is gone.. Sad but truth.. Whether he is here for a reason, a season or a lifetime..you will always be remembered..

To all of you.. this is one nice msg that I would like to share with you.. I hope you will like it.. _______________________________________________________________________
People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime.

When you know which one it is, you will know what to do for that
person.

When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need
you have expressed.

They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with
guidance and support,

To aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually.

They may seem like a god send and they are.

They are there for the reason you need them to be.

Then, without any wrong doing on your part or at an inconvenient time,

this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an
end.

Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away.

Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.

What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire
fulfilled, their work is done.

The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on.





Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has
come to share, grow or learn.

They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh.

They may teach you something you have never done...

They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.

Believe it, it is real. But only for a season.




LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons,

things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional
foundation.

Your job is to accept the lesson,

love the person and put what you have learned to use in all other
relationships and areas of your life.

It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.



Thank you for being a part of my life,

whether you were a reason, a season or a lifetime.

David Tao (陶喆 - 天天 & 就是愛你)

I wonder.. how many of you guys actually like David Tao as much as I do.. well.. I don't really love him.. but he has an amazing voice.. what ever songs that he sang.. it will turn out just nice.. but sad to say.. I realised most of his old songs seems so much more attractive..

These are one of those songs that I will feel bad if I don't share with u guys..

David Tao - Close to you (陶喆 - 天天)

Have you ever fell so much in love that you wish to see this someone regardless of the weather.. wish to be with tis someone so badly that you will miss this someone even when he or she is just a min away from you side? He sangs all these out.. listen closely and feel what he tried to say..




陶喆-就是愛你

This is another nice song.. I mean.. if you wish to propose to someone.. tell her how u fell for her.. sing tis song to her.. I actually think all gal will melt lo.. u try and listen..and tell me wat u think ok ?!



I hope you will enjoy this nice songs.. and maybe can suggest some nice songs to me too ?!

Enough to kill~~

Topic that you will see everyday in the newspaper.. H1N1.. yes.. it is deadly enough to kill.. but does it ever cross your mind that.. accident, Denggi.. or even a normal smile.. or even a nap.. it is deadly enough to kill or take away your life?

I'm sure tones of you will be questioning my statements.. or even start to curse me.. but come on.. H1N1 is a hot topic to be discussed.. and I'm actually working in a place where I heard tones of rumours from "outsiders" saying that Tesco had been closed down for few days as its workers are down with H1N1.. but the truth is.. I had been working really hard lately to serve customers daily.. though I actually hope Tesco is "closed down" for couple of days.. but it is still very much "healthy" and still operating like normal days.. so.. tell me.. H1N1 is the deadly one or the rumours? .. As compared.. rumors is so much more deadly as compared to deceases right? so.. if schools can be closed down and students should be quarantined at home.. thn.. can we "closed down" a more deadly "creatures" that have created H1N1 and also those deadly rumours? It is.. indeed impossible to do so right?

The bare truth is.. everything happened with a reason.. this H1N1.. is actually a normal sickness we experienced.. a normal fever, sore throat,flu.. dizziness.. yet.. it evolved and turn into something deadly enough to kill.. I wonder.. does it shows that.. we human have turn weaker by days and those virus becomes stronger by days or does it shows that it the process of creating a "better living place for human", we human have been too ignorant and created a better environment for the virus to spread?

If you look close enough.. we are reason for all these.. try to look back into those time where our parents were at our age.. they can go out even without any shoes.. running on the road without worrying kidnappers..they do not have as much worry as we are.. they don't have to worry about those crazy rapers..back at those days.. though they are not well educated.. not techno savvy.. they don't even have as much supplementary(vitamins) as we take daily.. yet, they don't have to worry as much as we do now adays right? so.. what actually went wrong ? Are we really the reason for all these that happened around us? You tell me..

Oh.. before I forget.. I actually heard one scary stuff from someone not along ago.. she told me that those calender makers.. they usually will make those yearly calenders before hand.. and they tried to produce calender of year 2013 but somehow .. they can't print it out.. not just one calender maker experienced this.. so.. what does tis show? some technical problems? or is it a sign? I duno.. and I'm not in any rights to say anything.. .

So.. back to this topic.. If you asked me.. which is the most deadly creatures.. deadly enough to kill? I will say without doubt.. we human are the scariest creature.. because we created all these because we are the one who started rumours right? ? are we in time to fix all these? Are we in time to be awaken and realised all these? you tell me...

Are You Smarter Than a 5th Grader?

Oh my goodness.. this makes me wonder.. am I smarter than a 10 years old in US? Are you smarter than a 10 years old kids regardless of how old you are?

Today I'm free enough to watch Astro Star World and watch this show.. and let me tell you.. after watching this show.. I'm super impressed with what those kids learn even at the age of 10! They have to know from US history to World history.. How old is the minimum age to be US senator? and president? Let's be frank.. I don even noe how old it is to be the senator of Malaysia until I studied Pengajian Am (form 6) and a 10 years old kid is expected to know these facts.. how can i not solute them ? I mean I learn all these facts and more about Malaysia when I was like.. 18 years old.. and they have to know all these at about 10..

This is one of the first that actually ARE SMARTER THN A 5TH GRADER!and is a SHE!! .. let's enjoy and see the wonder of getting the 1 million.. and the question asked.. I know well that I can't get this far.. at least not at this point of time.. if ever one day u guys managed to get this 1 million.. let me noe ok !! I will PERSONALLY thank you!!

What a Day -.-"

Have u ever experienced such day: You are so happy to have a day off.. a day that belong to you and you alone.. and you have all planned out.. everything seems so perfect.. but wait.. there is a catch.. u need a good weather to make it a perfect day..and a healthy body to make it a perfect day.. but guess wat.. I'm lack of those 2 things..

With the haze and the increased number of H1N1.. I actually feel unwell today.. and there goes my day.. my perfect day can only be a dream...this sore throat is killing me.. and somehow feel bit headache.. signs of H1N1? part of it.. yes.. but.. I seriously hope I'm no where near to the "quarantine concept" yet.. I can't survive bored day.. wat more bored days.. haha..

Let's hope I will get better soon.. my perfect day.. seems so far away now.. and my healthy body.. when will you come bck? I will have to make sure you will be back soon.. my perfect day.. wait for me ok ?!.. you can run.. but you can't hide.. I will hunt you down.. hahaha.. sound so dramatic.. but..now.. blogging is my only way of fun for today.. so.. bare with me for today ok ?!

Learn to let go

It is always easier to say thn done.. you and I know it very well right? but at times, no matter how hard it is.. we still have to learn.. for the good of everyone right? Because, what good it is for us to remain status quo ? What do we loss for trying? but in fact, we will gain from learning to change right? This is one interesting email I got from my "brother" which I think I should share with you guys.. hope you all will like it..

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能解決的事，不必去擔心；
不能解決的事，擔心也沒用。
在順境中感恩、在逆境中依舊心存喜樂 ……


累了，就把心事放下來

最近認識一位美國籍的出家師父，是個很有趣的事情。
特別是他叫我舉起蕃茄汁，跟他說話的經驗。
我們約在新竹的一家茶館，用英文談論著心經，
師父用英文跟我解釋因果、輪迴這些事情，這都還不稀奇。

有趣的事情在後頭呢！
師父一聽完我跟他提到～個人煩惱的時候，
他索性要我左手提起～他剛買的三罐番茄汁，
一邊提著，一邊跟他說話。
可想而知，我左手感覺到疲勞的程度，跟時間成了正比。
也懊惱著為何師父要我一邊提著三罐蕃茄汁，一邊跟他說話。
受不了這樣的酸楚，我自行把左手放下，
卻聽到師父跟我說：
「 Hold it up, and keep talking to me. 」

聽到這樣的話，心理不免起了疑心，
我手提的那麼酸，
為何不讓我放下手上的重物，輕鬆地與他對談？
約莫過了15分鐘，我的左手實在承受不住了，
才聽見師父跟我說：「Now you can put it down.」。
看著我狐疑的臉，師父居然笑了出來。


「你不喜歡提著重物跟我說話， 為何你卻喜歡帶著煩惱，過著你的生活呢？
手酸了，放下就好，對待煩惱，不也是這樣？
或是這些煩惱，就像是那些番茄汁一樣，
是你自己用手把它們給舉起來的呢？」

有趣的經驗，對吧？
最近我開始這樣的練習，
一手舉起有重量的東西，一邊想著事情。
手酸了，自然會放下手上的東西，
看看有一天，我會不會也學到，心累了，就把心事給放下來。
我們能很容易的放下有形的重物，
卻很難放下無形的重擔。

執著的人生～會讓自己承擔莫需有的重擔。
學習放下執著～也就在學習人生自在。

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There is no need to worry about problems that can be solved,
Problems that can’t be solved, worrying will do no good.
We should be glad when we are “problem- free” yet still be happy when we are troubled…

When tired, just let go of your problems
I’ve meet someone interesting not long ago especially when he asked me to hold on to the ketchup source while talking to him.
We were having normal conversations and listening to his explanations about karma and everything.. There was nothing special until I mentioned to him my personal troubled.. He insisted me to hold up high to the 3 bottles of ketchup source that he just bought while talking to him. Obviously, I can my left hand getting tired with the pass of time. I can’t stop wondering why he asked me to hold on to the 3 bottles of ketchup sauce while talking to him! I putted down the ketchup sauce when my left hand got too tired! But he continue to insist me and said “Hold it up, and keep talking to me.” Why can’t I put such heavy stuff down while talking to him? Won’t it be much more relax talking with him that way? This is what I kept thinking.. After about 15min, when my left hand can no longer support it, I finally heard he said “now you can put it down” He smiles while looking at my face that has thousand questions.

“You do not like to carry heavy stuff while talking to me right? Yet, why do you like to carry you problems while living your life? When your hand is tired, letting it go will made u feel much more relief, y can’t you do the same to your problems? As compared, problems are like ketchup sauce.. It is up to you to hold it on right?”
Interesting experienced right? We can easily let go of something we can see, touch and feel yet it is hard to let go of something that we cannot see with our bare eyes..

If you continue to be stubborn, you will have thousands of burdens to carry on your back,
Learn to let go, you will learn to live freely.

Guys will understand and gals will regret knowing it too late..

How true is it? I have no idea.. guys tell me how true it is ok ?! I got this email few days ago.. and i found it somehow true.. I'm not implying that all guys do so.. but most of them doing it without realizing it.. I got it in mandarin version and so I've translated it in English version..


男人要永远感谢在他20多岁的时候曾经陪在他身边的女人，
因为20多岁的男人处在一生中的最低点,
没钱、没地位，没房、没车、没事业，不能独立又不想依赖，挣扎着彷徨着，寻找自己的位置！
而20多岁的女人却是她生命中最灿烂的时候；
男人要永远感谢在他20多岁的时候曾经陪在他身边的女人，
因为二十多岁的男人还很“懵懂”，
而二十多岁的女人却很灿烂；
二十多岁的男人处在一生中的最低点，
而二十多岁的女人却是她的大好华年；
二十多岁的男人很不知珍惜，
而二十多岁的女人最需要被珍惜；
二十多岁的男人自卑到极点所以非常自负，
而二十多岁的女人却在努力建立他的自信；
二十多岁的男人不懂爱，不会爱却需要爱，
而二十多岁的女人需要被爱，需要关怀，却要付出呵护付出关怀；
二十多岁的男人没钱、没事业，但有欲望
而二十多岁的女人空守着自己的韶光不再；
女孩子二十岁左右是她最美丽的年华，这时她的心地最善良，她有点成熟，又有点孩子气。
男孩子在二十多岁时遇见了一个年纪相当的女孩子，那一定要珍惜她，因为这个女孩是用自己最美丽的年华陪他走过了最暗淡的日子！！！
女孩只要陪他走过，女孩会永远幸福下去~~~
当女孩对你撒娇甚至无理取闹时，请男孩不要烦恼女孩，因为她们有道理这样，我们没理由烦恼，我们要做的就是很理解很理解，保护好这位天使，等我们到了30岁，正当我们最美丽的时候，也请你不要放开这位曾经的天使！！！ 二十多岁的男人不知道珍惜,不知道感恩.
当他们三十多岁的时候,事业有成,成熟稳重.
开始嫌弃曾经陪伴过他,但不再年轻的女人.
有人说男人其实是最专一的.
因为从20岁到80岁的男人都喜欢20岁左右年轻漂亮的女人.
这是个笑话,但也是个事实.
有人说现在的年轻女孩都很现实,眼中没有爱情.
称着年轻嫁个有钱的,一辈子也就有个归宿了.
男人有时好比洋葱,要想看到洋葱的心就需要一层一层去剥。
但是女人在剥的过程会不断流泪剥到最后才知道，
原来洋葱是没有心的.
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Man should always appreciate gal that used to stand by him when he is at his twenties as he is at his down side of his life.
No money, no land, no house, no car, no career… unable to be independent yet don’t wish to rely on others, struggling and searching and wondering where is hid place.


Girl at her twenties .. is at the best time of her life, shining and sparkling…
Man should always appreciate and be thankful for the gal that stand by him at his twenties as the gal at her twenties is at the best time of her life and guy at twenties is at the lowest time of his life.

Most guys at his twenties will not appreciate wat they have but it is wat the gal needed most – to be appreciated, loved and cared.

Man at that stage will be useless and so will keep on blaming himself, yet gal at that stage will try her best to build up hi confidence.

Man as his twenties do not know how to love yet needed love and gal at her twenties need to be loved, cared yet have to cared and be understanding.

Gal at her twenties is at the best time of her life. At this moment, she will be very kind-hearted, matured yet “kiddy”.

A man at his twenties that meet a gal of a similar age, he has to appreciate her because she used the best time of her life to accompany the worst time of his life!

If ur gal is sticky or make a big fuss out of a small matter, guys please don’t get tired of her and leave her alone as they have reasons to do so. We do not have reasons to feel tired or angry, we have to be very very understanding and protect this angel. When you guys reached your thirties, it is the best time of ur life, and please do not leave or give up on ur “used to be” angel.

When guys are at their twenties, they do not know how to be thankful, how to appreciate what they have. When they are at their thirties, they are very much stable and have their own career. They will start to give up this gal who used to accompanied him yet used up the best time of her life to accompanied him.

Someone used to say; actually guys are very loyal because from twenties to eighties, they will like pretty gals at their twenties. This is a joke and in the same time, it is very much true.

Others said gals nowadays are very realistic and do not see love in their eyes. They will tend to get married at their young age to someone rich and will have someone to accompany them for the rest of their life.

Yet, they do not know that, at times, guys are like onions. If you wish to see the heart of an onion, you have to peal of the layer one by one.
In the process, you will continue crying.. just to realized the very cruel fact that, onion do not have a heart.

When will it stops?

Lately, I have been bz working.. imagine.. I don't even have the time to sit down when there is always a chair available.. and I don't really earn anything even though the business is doing so well.. oh.. i forgot.. I got something.. slight flu.. and no.. i really don hope this is the well known sign of H1`N1..

Yet, this is not that caused me to feel sad.. looking bck on my Taylor's life.. although I have been mixing well(well as in I don really mixed and hardly even talk to ppl on issue other thn academic wise).. It is really sad to know and to see 2 frens fight over something i have no idea of.. no.. I don't really think they are fighting over something.. They are fighting over one's dignity which caused them to get even hurt.. and at tis point.. do they still have any turning bck in their friendship?.. I seriously have no idea.. but it is really sad and heart breaking to see all these..

No! I'm not bias in any side..at least no starting from this moment.. and I really hope I can still be friend of both side.. years later.. when both of u look bck at this.. will u ever regret for wat u have said and done? does it worth to break one's friendship because of all these? is it avoidable if there is better communication in conveying one's feeling truthfully to another party once u feel uncomfortable on another's action? so many questions.. yet.. so few answers..

From this, I learn one important lesson.. there is no winning in a fight.. both party will be the loser.. it is either u get hurt more or less.. so..how much is one's dignity's worth when both party hurt so much that it is hard to breath?

我想将这两首歌点给各位。。 但在还没结束前。。 有句我希望你们了解“退一步，海阔天空。。翩体鳞伤了。。 那又何苦呢?..

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